What’s New in Destination Weddings in 2010

by Marilyn Lazar

Here's what the experts are saying are 'hot' trends in destination weddings for 2010.

Sheer

Forget last year’s lace — think sheer fabrics like tulle and net. The team at Karisma Resorts & Hotels has a finger on the pulse of destination weddings and they observe that brides are "choosing sheer fabrics to replace heavier, traditional satin. The mini-dress is in, especially for beach weddings." For a dramatic twist the ‘birdcage’ veil, held in place with flowers or a statement clip, is not only stunning but also much lighter and cooler than a traditional veil.

Makeup artist Dino Dilio (www.dinodilio.com) echoes the sheer look in makeup with low-maintenance, multi-use cosmetics. "I love one stick for eyes, cheeks and lips."

Practicality

Introducing some practicality not only makes financial sense, it can also help loosen sartorial rules. Many couples are choosing to provide new white shirts that can be worn with khakis for a crisp look for the men in their bridal party — and it’s a great gift they can re-use. Similarly, bridesmaids have been freed from the scourge of usually unflattering (and expensive) wedding dresses that tend to end up as Halloween costume finds at Value Village. More often, brides are simply choosing a colour and letting thier ladies select off-the-rack dress styles of their choice. Just be sure to set a style standard so that you don’t run the gamut from sundresses to gowns.

Green

The jets we fly on leave a carbon footprint — we don’t have much choice about that. But a green approach can be taken in various ways. At the most eco-conscious end, couples are requesting donations to carbon-offset programs in lieu of gifts. However, you can be green in other ways by implementing behind-the-scene measures that go beyond the paperless invitation. Ask about composting and disposal of leftovers, using solar or LED lighting and using chemical-free cleaning products. Support local artists by using their handicrafts as favours or set up a registry with your travel agent. Donations don’t require wrapping or packaging. Look for hotels such as the Fairmont, which has an impressive green program.

The ‘green scene’ has also made its way into makeup. Says Dilio, "During the past year I have received many inquiries about the specific kinds and brands of makeup and tools I use. Many brides are looking for vegan, gluten-free and natural cosmetics that fit their lifestyles and wedding themes."

Simple Elegance

Gone is the over-the-top production and ‘bling’ wedding à la Celine Dion. Toronto event planner Karen Garscadden says there is a return to low-key yet highly personal celebrations. Marrying later in life means couples often pay their own way and entertain their peers — instead of their parents’ guests. Divorce, gay marriage and reconstituted families also affect wedding styles and guest lists.

Nature

Centrepieces are all about earthy elements. A bonsai tree surrounded by flowers, moss or even mushrooms and fragrant potted herbs in glass jars is the latest trend in floral arrangements. Consider using local herbs and shrubs, and for the place settings, incorporate details like shaved bark, twigs or palm leaves.

Personality

Cookie cutter is out. "Weddings have become such a wonderful display of personal expression," says Rebecca Grinnals, wedding industry consultant and trend expert. "I never tire of seeing the beautiful ways in which couples are infusing their personalities into the celebration." Incorporating personal interests or heritage adds so much flavour and depth, creating a more meaningful day for you and your guests. Everything, from planned activities to wedding favours, is an opportunity to express yourself.